You have to sexually escalate with every woman you meet, it lets her know that you’re not messing around and you are a sexual man. She’ll appreciate it and will return your advances with sex.This is the good bit and by now she should be VERY turned on. It’s the last hurdle and you’re around 10 minutes in, so another 5 minutes on her vagina and you’re good to go.
But what if I said that you could get a woman so turned on within 15 minutes of stripping her down and doing the business that she’d more than likely orgasm between 5 and 10 times during sex, depending on how sexually confident she is.Amen, some do get it. A flick of the clit wont gain entry to this cooter. Very good advice just wanna add one i really like. When a man looks my body over and says “damn u beautiful, let me get a good look at u”. Whooo its on from there. Women compete all the time with eachother so makin em feel like your number one pick goes a long way.
Don’t rush dude! Take it very slow and remove her clothes in a sexy way, otherwise she’ll start thinking that you just want her for sex and will get freaked out by the situation.
The last step is to use your fingers, which will introduce some penetration into the mix and will really send her over the edge. By this time, she’ll usually say something like “Just fuck me already!”Quick tip: If she orgasms during foreplay (which she more than likely will) lightly blow on her clitoris immediately after for a few seconds, to stimulate her clitoris that little bit more, which will be VERY sensitive. Just came across this. I almost came just imagining this happening to me. Now please spread the word so ALL men get it. How sad that the ultimate goal is orgasm when getting there is 90% of the fun. I wish my man would take notes. I need loving like you described…sigh. Once she’s fully naked you need to start massaging her body by rubbing her all over and kissing her at the same time. This will make her moist down below and will build up the tension until she’s ready for you to penetrate. So that’s it guys. Listen, I know that foreplay can sometimes be a little tedious, but trust me women will appreciate this and use you as their “go to guy” for sex, which is what all us men want! Well it should, because 1) it’s damn easy and 2) I’m going to teach you how to do it… right now. These foreplay tips for men are essential and should be used on every woman you meet from now on.Women love dirty talk because they are extreme fantasists, so if you are confident enough to talk dirty to her before you even get into the bedroom, you should. Try some of these killer dirty talking phrases to really get her off. My partner cant make me orgasm or squirt…even doing the things you suggest. I am a very horny girl and long n lust for his dick and him to get me off…but i always end up having to lie on top of him so i can get my self of to an orgasm ! Any advice and help pdeffinately some help wouldplease. When he comes im always left wsnting more, and still horney…but sfter he cums hes not interes Anyone who was alive in 2004 remembers the scene in White Chicks where Terry Crews grossly slurps down a plate full of oysters because he thinks that it will turn on his date. (For years, I refused to eat oysters because I was so disturbed). That moment alone has left a lasting impression about oysters and their reputation as the most infamous aphrodisiac in the universe. While this is technically fact not fiction as the amino acids activate sex hormone production, it only works if you’re a man with testosterone coursing through your veins.
“These bright gems enclosed in a thick rose-colored husk are filled with tangy sweet antioxidants, which support blood flow and clear thought. One study by The Male Clinic in California found that pomegranate juice had a positive effect on erectile dysfunction.” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician
“High in energizing zinc and fatty acids, which has been linked to a healthy sex drive, pine nuts are also considered aphrodisiacs because of the effort required to procure these oily gems from pinecones.” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician”The caffeine in coffee is a stimulant that ups the heart rate and makes the blood flow. One study conducted with female rats and published on scientific journal suggested that coffee could put women in the mood for sex. Its smell has a delicate and sensual aroma too.” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician”Chocolate has long been hailed as one of nature’s most powerful aphrodisiacs and is rich in serotonin and dopamine – hormones that are directly related to our feelings of pleasure or happiness. Chocolate is also rich in a chemical known as phenylethylamine, a hormone which is directly associated with our feelings of love or desire. So if you’re trying to get your partner in the mood, make sure you offer them a cup of hot cocoa before bed or include chocolate in your dessert or simply give it to them as a gift. You can also use edible body chocolate during love making–what could be more erotic than physically eating dessert off of each other? If the idea doesn’t already get you horny, the act certainly will.” – Caleb Backe, health & wellness expert for Maple Holistics
“This peppery tasting plant has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. The bite of the aromatic leaf might get you in the mood. The minerals and antioxidants found in dark leafy greens like arugula have also been proven to block environmental contaminants that could negatively harm libido.” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician”The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the “Apple” they started covering their “nudity” with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.” – Dr. Gabrielle Francis, naturopathic doctor, chiropractor, acupuncturist & massage therapist”Honey is made through pollination and secretions of many fertile bees worshipping their queen, just what every woman wants and symbolizes nature’s procreative pinnacle. Birds and bees ring a bell? In fact, the word ‘honeymoon’ got its name from mead, an alcoholic beverage made from honey given as a libidinous elixir to the happy and horney new bride and groom. Drizzled on certain body part can be fun too… It has a number of vitamins and it also contains boron, which helps regulate estrogen and testosterone levels and the sweet and sappy sweetness provides a natural energy boost.” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician”Phenylalanine/PEA is a neurotransmitter that is a natural amphetamine and stimulant. It floods the regions of the brain involved in sexual excitement. It is the chemical we associate with the feeling of ‘falling in love’ with someone. Phenylalanine helps to produce endorphins, which are our natural painkillers. Dark chocolate is high in PEA and that is why it is so often given to lovers to get them in the mood of love.” – Dr. Gabrielle Francis, naturopathic doctor, chiropractor, acupuncturist & massage therapist”Asparagus is high in vitamin E, which from a regular nutrition perspective is good for keeping your skin moist, it’s also a healthy fat good for brain health. From an aphrodisiac perspective, it increases hormones like testosterone for men and estrogen/progesterone for women. In turn, it increases stimulation and natural lubrication.” – Melissa Eboli, nutritional chef”The ‘heat’ in garlic is said to stir sexual desires. Make sure you and your partner share it together. Garlic has been used for centuries to cure everything from the common cold to heart ailments.” – Dr. Gabrielle Francis
“Pumpkin seeds are high in magnesium which helps in relaxation and muscle cramps. From an aphrodisiac perspective, this helps raise testosterone levels by making sure more enters the bloodstream.” – Melissa Eboli, nutritional chef “Not only do avocados have an amazing taste and texture, but they’re also thought to help stimulate the nether-regions quite effectively. They say that the key to the avocados success in terms of it being an aphrodisiac lies in its shape, which is thought to resemble that of both male genitalia and a female’s body. Also, because of their rich and creamy texture, eating an avocado raw or including it in a meal (like a salad or on a pizza) can get you feeling excited again in no time.” – Caleb Backe, health & wellness expert for Maple Holistics “For those that enjoy the edgier side of sensation play, peeled root ginger used as a butt plug (figging) can be really hot (literally and figuratively)– it’s especially potent when used during sparking and Impact play, as any clenching increases the intensity of the sensation. In a similar vein, I’ve had requests from masochists for pepper sauce-covered toys and plugs used in intimate areas.” – Louisa Knight, private companion”Many women can relate that stress is a top libido killer. In addition to balancing stress hormones, Maca has also been shown to boost testosterone levels thus revving up sex drive. Maca is a root that is usually ground down into a powder which makes it easy to add to smoothies, oatmeal or baked goods.” – Dina Garcia, dietitian-nutritionist and owner of Vida Nutrition
“Olive oil is a good source of monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, which are critical for a healthy heart, smooth blood flow and stable hormone production, all needed to keep the brain, prostate and penis in good shape!” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician
“Packed full of magnesium which can help reduce inflammation in blood vessels thereby increasing blood flow to organs.” – Caitlin Hoff, Health & Safety Investigator at ConsumerSafety.org”This invigorating spice has an exotic reputation and a bright red color, which could be why it’s considered a natural aphrodisiac and a symbol of love. But there’s scientific backing, too. Chili peppers stimulate endorphins (the brain’s feel good chemicals), speed up heart rate and make you sweat, which all mimic how you feel when you’re horny.” – Silvia Baldini, chef
“Skip the coffee after dinner and reach for a cup of Indian chai tea. The typical spices in this brew include ginger, cloves and cinnamon, all come from exotic places and certainly will get the blood flowing, and it has almost no caffeine so the stimulant effect is less than coffee, so you’ll still be able to drift off to sleep with your lover after your lovemaking!” – Dr. Christopher Calapai, osteopathic physician
“Red wine or wine in general relaxes you and makes you feel good when drinking. Red wine has resveratrol, an antioxidant that boosts blood flow and improves circulation, hence an aphrodisiac effect.” – Melissa Eboli, nutritional chef”Boosting libido and metabolism are all about increasing the heat of your diet. Ginger, and nutmeg are warming herbs that increase blood flow in the abdominal and pelvic regions. They are said to stimulate your appetite for both food and sex. They are easy to add to many recipes, especially soups, hot drinks like tea.. The blood-pumping effects of these delicious spices increase vaginal moisture and intensify sexual pleasure.” – Silvia Baldini, chef
“The phytonutrients in watermelon create a ‘Viagra effect’ for men, increasing performance and pleasure during sex.” – Caitlin Hoff, health & safety investigator at ConsumerSafety.org
“It’s high in vitamin C which has been found to help with blood circulation and increasing the female libido.” – Caitlin Hoff, Health & Safety Investigator at ConsumerSafety.org
“Maca powder is formed from a root vegetable that is native to the Peruvian highlands. Like many things that come from peru, maca powder is quite exotic and has been used as both a libido stimulant and an antidepressant for a long time. Because the powder is so easy to include in your meals, you can add it to everything from smoothies to breads.” – Caleb Backe, health & wellness expert for Maple Holistics
“Believed to stimulate the sexual glands and increase desire.” – Dr. Gabrielle Francis, naturopathic doctor, chiropractor, acupuncturist & massage therapist
Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XBWell it’s pretty easy if your a girl you can get in to your lingerie and stand in front of the mirror and then you touch yourself and squeeze your boobs and if you want to get even more horney you can sit on a chair legs wide open and rub your vagina lightly ( with your pantie or thong on) You can also search horney makers on Google images and there will come a picture of 2 men on even thought its gross.
horny means you are sexually frustrated and gagging for sex turned on is when somebody makes you want sex with them either by being good looking or by actively seducing you
If you’re a boy you can take a sponge cut a hole the size of your penis and stick it through and watch it coming out the other side it made my boyfriend so horney before sex we both had an orgasm 10 times and boy was it good!!!!!
absolutely. think about it…if virgins never got horny, then no one would ever have sex because well, the world would all be virgins with no sex drive. and no one would ever reproduce. it takes being horny to populate the world.
Men have a longer refractory period than women do, and women can have many orgasms one after the other. A woman is different than a man and do not go through the same things.Always think about how you look. Guys are sight oriented and what you wear can turn him off or on. Don’t be frumpy or slutty looking but wear the perfect outfit.
You need to remember your own needs. Whatever makes you horny, do it. Many women will only worry about what the guy wants and will forget her needs. Do what makes you happy, take a bath together or watch porn together. Send him text messages that show that you want to be with him and you are waiting for him.
You will know if you are making your guy horny because he will get an erection where his nipples and penis is hard, he will get red in the face and flushed, his breathing will get shallow and quick, his heart rate will increase.
Make sure that the place smells inviting and sexy. Light some candles or put on some soft perfume. Put on some lotion that he likes and make sure the room has a light and exciting smell.
Look your best. Dress up and put on something that he won’t be able to forget. Turn on the lights with a little glow or light some candles. Make the room look sexy and inviting. Don’t have too much light and don’t have it too dark. Some mistakes women make are that they don’t know how to make a guy horny and they will believe what the movies say. They think if they put on high heels that their guy will want to have sex. If you are sleeping with your guy a lot, you can sexually condition him. You can do this by doing something before you sleep together like play a sexy song or put a certain smell on. Then, when you do these things, your man will get horny right away and know it is time for sex.
Use silk sheets or put on something that is silky that he can touch and take off. Don’t forget to make sure the room is the right temperature and is not too cold or too hot.
You always need to be fixed up and look your best when you are trying to get your guy horny. You can also choose to go with lingerie tat is sensual and a turn on for most guys. The best idea is to pick out a piece that will show off your best body parts.
All of these touching ideas can get our man turned on without you being weird. When you do this with the right mood, you will bring yourself to his mind and he will be thinking about you all night long.
There is something called a dual control, and this is when the sex drive has two parts. The first part is that when he has a sex drive, he becomes Horney and the second part is the sexual inhibition system and this is like breaks for sex. A guy can get turned off as fast as he can get turned on. If you can find a corner in a dim restaurant or at the bar, this will help to make your man horny. Go home and set the table with rose pedals and soft music. Setting the mood will help make him horny. If you find yourself asking, “will this place make him horny or not?” then you are on the right track. Get some strawberries or fruit. Do something that makes him think differently. If you want to do favored lube, this can work as well. Consider some foods that are a great aphrodisiac.
Sometimes guys aren’t into it right then. Be direct and see if he wants to have sex. If he doesn’t, he might say no. If he tells you no, move on with life and don’t feel rejected. This could mean he isn’t in the mood or he is upset about something.If you have no issues in your relationship but your man still does not want to have sex, you need to find out if he has a medical condition. Find out if he is able to function sexually and why he is not getting an erection.When you are confident that he wants to have sex, you need to be more passionate and put your body against his or grind up against him. Touch his penis through his pants and give him a blow job.If you meet a girl wearing all leather or high heels, chances are this would make you feel weird instead of turning you on. Don’t try to be like the movies. The arousal concordance is when you feel aroused even if your body isn’t showing it. This can happen when the blood flows around your penis or vagina and you are horny even if your body is not showing the arousal. Laughter is good and it can be a great way to get close to your guy, but it does not make him horny. If there is too much going on, he can lose his sexual connection to you. Too much talking is distracting, and you need to not be goofy or silly or talk too much.
Most women have responsive desire, and this is when the desire shows up, they will want to have sex later. After you start making out with your guy, then you get turned on.
When you want to make a guy horny, you have to understand that not all guys are turned on by the same things. You have to find the right strategy to get your guy horny without acting like a slut or being weird.
You can bring lingerie and stockings and heels and guys think this is very sexy. Remember, you need to be comfortable in whatever you wear so that it can go on and come off just as easy. If it is hard to get off, that is a turn off.
Talking to his doctor can be embarrassing but he might find out that he is depressed or has medicine that is causing him not to get hard. Even sickness can cause a role in not being able to be erect.
You can always loosen him and yourself up with a drink, not a bunch, but just one to lighten up the mood. Then, when you are ready, give him a massage. Don’t be overbearing but make him feel excited.Spontaneous desire is when you just feel a desire come along. Even if you aren’t thinking about sex, the thought comes, and this happens a lot to men. They get turned on for almost no reason.
The first thing that you want to do is set the mood. Find a place to be that will turn your guy on and make him interested in you. The best place is not going to be a public place like a football or basketball game. This will be a place you like to go and have fun, but this place most likely won’t turn your man on.
Something could be stopping him from having sex such as being sick or not feeling well. You can try next time. If he stops having sex with you all the time, that is different. Find out why he is not focusing on you and if this keeps up, see a therapist or move on.
Science tells us that arousal happens at different times and that men can be horny at different times. According to the Sexual Response Cycle, men have four phases they go through: Excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution.
Focus on parts of his bodies that turn him on like his nipples or around his balls. Direct touch will get him horny and when he isn’t picking up your cues, this is a fast way to get him there.When you walk in his bedroom naked, chances are that you are wanting sex. When he sees you without clothes, he will get horny. Undressing yourself in front of your man will most likely get you laid. Women will initiate sex way more often than men do so doing this can make you feel powerful and make him feel that you are sexy.Some men and women have this, and it can mean that your guy is horny even if you don’t know it. At some point, his penis will respond to you and you need to stimulate him to make it work faster. One thing to remember though, an erection does not always mean a guy is horny.Always touch him with seductive touches. Start before you even think about sex. Don’t grope him or be weird, just touch him softly on his arm or on his leg.A woman can respond to a thought or a sexy scene or a movie. Having response desire doesn’t mean there is no desire, it just means something needs to be responded to. I have a older man which we have great connection together and the sex is amazing and he does really well keeping up with me for the most part but was wondering if anyone knew he had heart surgery about 8 months ago and sometimes now he has a hard time getting a hard on he will be completely turned on and wanting sex but big head thinking one thing and little head is saying no could it be the blood thinners he has to take now every day? My fiance and I had an amazing sex kid I would say, I got pregnant with our second baby in Sept 2016 and I thought everything was good. Not to mention I was super horny, and even before I got pregnant with baby #2 we would have sex like everyday. We were supposed to be married Feb 2017 but we didnt cause he was cheating on me all 2017. Ive chosen to forgive him but when we have sex now I’m not into it. At first it was me feeling insecure. I would think he was thinking about the other girls and when I would think that I can feel myself get immediately dry. Well I’m not so insecure about that now. Now I guess I just want more foreplay, passion, I just want to be wanted again. But I guess he’s just so used to the other girls being so wet for him he would just stick it in. Now he complaines that I’m not wet enough. And I’m not, cause I’m not turned on. I used to love having sex with him, and guess I feel like he doesn’t with me so I feel a certain way. The reason he said he cheated was because he just needed new pussy before we got married. I dont know how to feel anymore about our sex life. And I dont want to deprive him cause we are trying to work things out, but I feel if I deprive him he’s just going to go get it from somewhere else.Sounds like a frustrating situation Gail. My advice is to keep talking to him in an open, non-judgemental, non-confrontational way to try and figure out what’s up with him
I’m so sorry to hear about your situation Lauren. The key is talking to him about your concerns and anxieties and rebuilding trust. I’ll put this article on my to do list. My problem is my husband doesn’t want to make love to me, I could have it 24/7 but he’s not interested and when he does come near me, it lasts 2 to 5 minutes only. He hates blow jobs, he hates me using my vibrators on him or myself. When he finishes getting off, he rolls away and he never considers my feelings or tries to help me get me to orgasm. I believe he feels threaten by my vibrators. He refuses to do it at night. I own all the porn movies in the house. He hates when I talk dirty to him, too. Hi Roni-jean, I’m sorry to hear that. It sounds like you need to have a very honest and open conversation with your man about the situation. Hopefully that will help! What if it’s the guy who never wants to have sex? Doesn’t like it to be demanded or anticipated says it feels obligatory. When it happens it’s great but he gets turned off when I try to initiate it..doesn’t have low t…suggestions? Hi Cherry, this could be for a number of reasons. He could be overweight, unhealthy, have a drop in testosterone, have depression, be taking SSRI medication or something else. He should talk to his doctor about this. Also if a mom has young kids to deal with, it will help if the hubby helps her out a lot with her responsibilities as much as possible. If he doesn’t he’ll just seem like a selfish jerk and she’ll be less motivated to make time for him. Can you do an article on how to rekindle the spark after a cheating partner? And one on how a man feels about his women sexually after he’s cheated on her?.
Oh gosh… Communication and patience is the problem not necessarily sex. Its possible he feels like you’re the one being inconsiderate about how he feels about toys and blow jobs. Not all men enjoy or understand the need of such things. You have to explain to him that women need different forms of pleasure and your wanting to use toys doesn’t mean he can not please you. I think he feels as if he doesn’t and can’t please you because he doesn’t understand the female body. Talk to him like Sean said and consider that maybe he feels less of a man at the moment. .
Hy sean I met this guy six month back we enjoyed having sex and bj he told me he has never met a girl who is gud at sex lyk me but recently he just disappeared stop texting me wich we did everyday he stoped calling but when I call he talk to me and tells me he misses me. The thing is I want u to pls give me advice on how to get him back I love him. I no longer enjoy sex all I do is think about him pls help
Incredible article. I didn’t have as much of a sex drive as my husband did because I think I had some resentment towards him and he was emotionally abusive. He would say everything was my fault and if I had sex with him more he wouldn’t act like that. He was also an alcoholic. So even though I wanted to, how could I when he treated me in such a manner. Anyway, I have a whole different perspective about sex now, thanks to your treasure trove of info, and others out there. Thank you so much Sean.
You know Sean. I read these, and I’m starting to feel like I’m the strange one. I want sex all the time. I love giving my man head. But I’m ALWAYS the initiator. And if I don’t initiate, we’ll go a week without sex. Maybe two. I’m the adventurous one in bed. I wonder what other reasons he is no longer into me. I haven’t gained weight or stopped taking care of myself in the three years we’ve been together. I still wear his favorite outfits. All the advice you give, I never stopped doing Those things we did in the relationship. He is the one pulling away from sex. And I’m still lost at how to fix it.The last piece is so true ! I am a qualified nurse and birth control pills deffinately eliminates my libido . Since being off the pill now my sex drive is perfect and finally am enjoying a amazing sex life and orgasms for the first time in years it’s pure bliss .
Sean, id love for you to raise awareness of the long term effect of birth control on libido. I’ve been on birth control for 20 years, we have three children. My husband recently had a vasectomy and I had my IUD taken out. I’ve been doing so much work and healing to get back years and years of lost sex drive – which contributed to so many problems in our relationship. Now we have sex almost daily and my friends can’t believe it. Also lots of BJs thanks to you.
I am SO happy you wrote this article!! I love having sex with my man & want it often. I started wondering if something was wrong with me since my female friends complain about or don’t want sex very often. I love my man, love satisfying him & him satisfying me. I think sex should be a daily activity. It’s a great way to connect, get closer & relieve stress/tension. Keep up your wonderful articles, I love & look forward to them! I can attest to what Sean says about weight and health. At one point I was almost 400lbs and was taking blood pressure pills. My libido was there but it was difficult to maintain a strong enough erection. And I was only 25 then. Well I lost the weight, got off the bp pills and he’s as hard as Chinese algebra I get answers like “I’m tired, I’m not interested, if I touch him to show i am horney he says “Do you have to?” I have been to the doctors and had him checked out. No problems there.The birth control/low libido thing is real and not at all something I considered 20 years ago. This has been a problem that has plagued me even before having kids. There are so many DRs putting young girls on it now just to regulate their cycle and the effects down the road will be damaging.
I read about the four phases of orgasm and anytime my partner has his finger inside of me I reach the second stage but I don’t think I reach the contraction stage before my legs begin to shake. My question is: is that orgasm for me or that is a step to and also I reach that stage more often with his hand inside me then his penis please what do I doThe problem could be that your man is stimulating your clitoris too directly which often leads to over stimulation and even a bit of pain! Try some positions where your clit isn’t being stimulated much and even some positions where it’s not stimulated at all. When your man is not stimulating your clit during, you can do yourself so that you can apply as much pressure as you like.
So when i feel the sensation and or urge to pee, i should push hard with my vagina almost as if im struggling to pee? Am i understanding correctly? Want to surprise my man tonight and try and squirt for him.I always held it back when I got that peeing urge, but after getting a new boyfriend who makes it impossible to hold anything back, I squirted for the first time and had the best orgasm of my life!! I wa embarrassed at first but after he told me what he thinks about it, I wish I could do it everytime, multiple times.
Hi sean, when my boyfriend and I have sex he never has an orgasm. He acts like he’s about to but it just never happens. Is it something I’m doing wrong? Is there any way at all that I could fix it? Make it more pleasurable for him?
I am 32. I have never experienced a Orgasm, I have had the sensation of having to pee during sex. I find myself getting frustrated that I never reach that point. While my husband does.Hi Sean I was wondering if its normal for a guy to jus go soft in the middle of performing I feel like his sex is great but mine isn’t so much it jus made me feel like I was doing something wrong or its jus not good anymore
Until then, here is the short answer. Your boyfriend is correct about it being your body’s way of letting you know you are about to squirt. It’s caused by your Skene’s gland swelling and filling with fluid. It’s a totally natural feeling, many girls experience it when reaching orgasm.
Sounds super frustrating Christy. My advice is to try and talk to him in a non-confrontational, non-judgemental way. This article on sexual communication should help.Most likely, your man will be thrilled to learn how to make you squirt, but a small amount of guys may feel a little emasculated by being shown how to please.
Sean i have been trying your techniques and they have worked for but my main problem is I have never squirt before in all my sexual experience, and secondly my boyfriend is a novice I have tried to teach him how to hold on longer before he cums but still the moment he enters my pussy just witg in 5 thrusts he cums how can i help him give me maxim satisfaction.This is a very difficult question to answer as every situation is specific to the individual. The easiest way to learn how to orgasm is on your own, when there is no one else around. Start with this AND make sure to take your time. Then try using some of these tips in the masturbation, cumming and orgasm articles.
How you show him is crucial. The key is to frame it in a positive way. Try telling him that you love it when he does certain things (the things that make you squirt).
Every once in a while while iam making love to my boyfriend,i get the sudden urge to pee.He told me that it’s my bodies way of letting me know that Iam about to squirt but Ive never experienced it.please let me know how get this feeling to a different stage(where i am sble to squirt)Don’t know whether you can answer this or not, but I might as well ask. I’ve been having sex for 15 years and have never had an orgasm (I don’t think). Can’t even give myself one. I have tried everything, and I get right there, but I can’t “release”. Any advice?
I’m always self conscious about what I my cum tastes like. Do you have any suggestions about what I should eat or drink to make it more pleasurable for my partner to go down on me?My husband has a small penius. I mean its pleasurable and he gives me orgasums but I still feel like something is missing. We do all types of positions and are wild but i need more. What could I do to make things more intense?
Sounds like a tough one. One way is to find a position that gets him off quicker than normal. The other is to try doing something like giving him a handjob or blowjob to give yourself a break.
hi Sean I need your help I can’t help it to know that my current partner and I have been having sex for 3 years and he haven’t hit the good spot and with that he doesn’t satisfy me I’m even afraid to tell him that I don’t enjoy having sex with him I’m just doing it for him to feel good and he comes after 20minutes whereas I don’t feel his sex how should I tell him this or at least try to tell him that he doesn’t hit a good spot?So ive been curious to know how i can quirt. My fiance loves when i do but its not very often. Im looking for some advice on how to gush. Like literally soak him and the bed. Any advice?Google squirting. Read the blogs. If you show your man how he can make you squirt with his fingers. Have him press his hand just above the pubic bone while inserting two fingers “palm up” inside you. Have him tilt his fingers up a little and pump in n out. You may feel like peeing a lil but kind of feels like a build up, pressure. Have him keep going unless it hurts then have him ease up a bit. When u start to squirt have him pull out just long enough to release some of it and then keep going. It’s the best damn feeling in the world. I didn’t know I could till 2 months ago and I’m 34. 🙂 crave it now everyday!
Thank you so much for your advice and tips on how to make your man happy and satisfied in bed ,all of the tips you said ,I apply it with my boyfriend ! He love it and even ask me were did I learn all those position and technique ,I just say its my secret hehe ! Anyway thank you so much again and still expecting more tips from you ! Love to know more from you ,till next ….take care……. SHERLEN
My boyfriend likes to have sex in the morning before he goes to work. But, he has trouble cuming in the morning. He wants sex, when we start he gets hard and pre cum starts to come out but when we start having sex, vaginal or anal, he says he isn’t going to cum and stops. I’ve given him a blow job after he has said that he isn’t going to cum and I’ve gotten him to cum, but it’s not much. Can you give me some advice on what to do to help him
This sounds like a tough situation. There could be a number of reasons that your man is going limp: Stress, tiredness, underlying illness, low testosterone count, new medication or a combination of all these things. The best thing is to have him talk to a doctor about it to see if he can discover the cause. Anything else would just be speculation.
