If this sounds good to you, select \”I Agree!\” below. Otherwise, you can get more information, customize your consent preferences, or decline consent by selecting \”Learn More\”. Note that your preferences apply only to Tumblr. If you change your mind in the future you can update your preferences any time by using the Privacy link beneath each ad. One last thing: Some of your data may be processed by our advertising partners based on legitimate interests instead of consent, but you can object to that by choosing \”Learn More\” and then disabling the Legitimate Interests toggle under any listed Purpose or Partner on their respective settings pages.Simply stated, for some males, premature ejaculation is the most exciting, most irresistible desire imaginable. So the desire to train oneself, or be trained by another, to become premature is quite understandable.Now I just try to enjoy every second, since I never know when the point-of-no-return suddenly happens. The orgasm sensation itself is wonderful and extremely intense. That’s in part because when you move slowly and carefully, the sensation doesn’t get lost in intensive mechanical movement, and in part also because of the delightfully naughty thrill and shame of being a premature ejaculator whose cock is just helpless in the overpowering presence of femaleness.
Like any sexual preference or desire, finding pleasure in quick ejaculation can be a wondrous thrill. Why it is so erotic to some of us no one knows. To most males it’s an unwanted thing. To a few it’s a huge turn-on. But how can one realize the fantasy, make it real? Here’s what might help make your desire come true:Interesting question. Most men ask themselves how they can last longer. But then there are those few who find the very concept of premature ejaculation erotic. The reasons for this vary. For some it’s the humiliation that comes with not being able to hold back and ejaculate too soon. For others it’s the thought of a pussy overcoming their cock, like in a battle. And for yet others it’s the thought that femaleness is simply too powerful for their cock and all they can do is wonder how quickly it will go off.Our current view is the desire to be, or become, PE is simply an exciting sexual fetish. Sexuality is perhaps the most powerful force in humanity. While the basic urge to procreate is simply a biological imperative (else the human species would quickly become extinct), the great variety of sexual fetishes is much more difficult to explain or interpret. Many fetishes just are. We have no idea why a certain activity, visual, object, sound, command or action has vast sexual power and may become the very center of our sexuality. And that’s no different for the PE fetish. Sex itself has changed in that I am at 90% from the very start, so I have to be very careful to not let things get away from me instantly. On the positive side, being at 90+% during the entire experience is incredible. Essentially I am always at a point of excitement that in my pre-PE days I just mechanically went through on my way to orgasm without being able to enjoy it as I do now. Why would anyone willingly become a premature ejaculator? After all, it’s a condition untold millions of males the world over are trying to get rid of. There is absolutely no mention in any medical literature of any males trying to acquire the condition. And yet, we know for a fact that there are many males who do seek to become premature, and many of them have been desperately trying for years to attain PE status. In fact, many of you right here in this class have stated in your application questionnaire that your goal and wish is to become premature ejaculators.Premature ejaculation is about falling in love with the idea that you have no control. It’s about embracing the delightful shame of knowing your penis will squirt whether you like it or not, whether it’s erect or not. It’s about falling in love with knowing that you’re becoming a premature ejaculator. It’s about getting hooked on having no control, to the extent where you know you’ll squirt because just thinking about it is a sexual thrill.Why is that so? No one knows for sure. Not even the faculty here at PEU. Many possible reasons have been stated in sexuality research papers as to why males may be, or become, premature ejaculators. An early female researcher suggested some males seek to be PE out of a hatred of women, to deprive women of pleasure by cumming very quickly. No one took that seriously.If, on the other hand, you seek the embarrassment and humiliation that ejaculating prematurely brings to a man, things are quite different. The conditioning and training must then be tailored to making you learn that simply being inside a vagina will bring you to orgasm, without actively seeking ejaculation by banging away.
There’s the anticipation of what might happen that’s both thrilling and a bit disconcerting, since I now never know how long I’ll last, and how soon I will cum. That anticipation is very enjoyable.If you follow this, chances are that you may end up becoming a true premature ejaculator. But be careful what you wish for. Becoming a premature ejaculator is relatively easy. Losing the fetish and regaining stamina and control is much harder.This will teach your mind and body that it’s normal to cum very quickly during sex. After a while ejaculating prematurely will become normal for you. Your mind has absorbed it and your body has learned how pleasurably it is to cum very quickly.This lecture presents an introduction to concepts, ways, means and methods that can help an individual become a premature ejaculator. The lecture will be presented as a series of questions and answers. I certainly have many fond memories of fucking when I had stamina. But now that it is gone, I consider myself lucky to be able to get so much enjoyment out of my new reality. Dear Professor vanSnelst, I am very turned on by the thought of becoming a premature ejaculator, and I would love to be trained to become one. I have a question, though: Have the sensations you experience during the buildup to orgasm and orgasm changed for you since you started having premature ejaculations?Well, if you are not currently a natural premature ejaculator, your partner is a female, and you guys decided it would be very cool if she learned how to make you cum very quickly, then it depends on what you two are trying to accomplish. Do you want to A) learn how to have her make you cum very quickly? Or do you want to B) lose the ability to control your orgasms? The two are different. A) is about the desire to quickly be vanquished by a female. B) is about helplessly shooting as soon as you’re close to or inside a vagina. Dear Professor vanSnelst, I need some advice from a pro. Would you be able to provide me some ideas for my partner to instruct and encourage me to become a premature ejaculator?
When I did have stamina, intercourse was often a very mechanical thing. Bang away, but make sure you don’t feel too much. And once the goal was reached (i.e., her orgasm), then it often just became a matter of thinking of something sexy to make myself cum. Ho-hum.If your desire to become a premature ejaculator is strong enough to change it from fantasy/turn-on to a real life condition there are a few things you may want to try.With hand jobs it’s pretty much the same thing. A willing female who enjoys bringing males to quick orgasms will learn what gets to him, will know exactly what to say to have him get excited, and know how to touch him for maximum effect. She will find ways to condition him to orgasm very quickly as soon as she has him in her hands. Soon he will depend on her hand and know that he’ll squirt as soon as she touches him. Females do have that power.This will teach your mind and body that you just can’t help cumming very quickly during sex. The harder you try, the quicker the point-of-no-return will be there and you’ll helplessly ejaculate prematurely. Your mind has absorbed that you cannot handle a vagina and your body has learned to ejaculate as soon as your penis feels vagina, no matter what.
I have a wife who is understanding but we dont talk about it much. That’s my experience if it helps anyone here, you would not be the only one with this problem for sure.An estimated 1 in 3 men experience premature ejaculation at some point in their lives. It can lead to confidence issues, severe embarrassment, avoidance of sex and all the resulting relationship fallout. Ouch. The only way I found to make a small difference is a bit of alcohol or sometimes if I am very tired (but thenthere can be other problems). In some ways I have gotten used to this as just the way I am. But it has caused me unhappiness and insecurity, more as I got older. AUA is a bit vague on the matter. You’re a PE if ejaculation happens sooner than desired, either before or shortly after penetration, and it really bums out both of you. Not all that scientific either.How long do men last? That, again, greatly varies depending on which study you look at. One survey says US men estimate their IELT (Intravaginal Ejaculation Latency Time i.e, how soon you cum after entry) to be almost 14 minutes, while the more honest Germans estimate it to be just seven minutes. Actual studies with stop watches suggest that the great majority of all males ejaculate within five minutes or less upon entry.
WHO said that you’re a premature ejaculator if you just can’t delay ejaculation, it happens within about 15 seconds upon penetration, but it’s still “sufficient to enjoy lovemaking.” Very much up for debate, that one.And that, dear students, is the male curse when it comes to sexual intercourse. We’re built to fail. And that goes for those with perfect stamina as well as for all of you aspiring or current premature ejaculators. It’s ladies first in real life. But down on the shop floor in the species propagation department, it’s generally guys first. Mother Nature saw to that. Unless the stars are all aligned or we do a really, really good job, or we just luck out. So there.